THE FESTIVE holiday season brings a sense of joy and community to Iloilo City, but it also ushers in a challenge that requires urgent attention: the safety and discipline of our youth. Recent incidents of violence involving minors during Misa de Gallo, including stabbing cases and group brawls in La Paz and Molo districts, show a gap in parental supervision and guidance.
The holidays are a time for family bonding, reflection, and shared traditions. Yet, for some young people, these occasions can devolve into opportunities for risky behavior, especially when unsupervised. While the Iloilo City Police Office (ICPO) has stepped up enforcement of the curfew ordinance, which prohibits minors from loitering in public spaces between 10 p.m. and 4 a.m., law enforcement cannot shoulder this burden alone. Parents and guardians must step forward as the first line of defense in ensuring their children’s safety and well-being.
Beyond just allowing children to enjoy the festivities, parenting during the holidays demands active involvement in their daily activities. Attending Misa de Gallo is a cherished tradition for many Ilonggo families, but parents must ensure that minors promptly return home after the dawn masses. Leaving children to wander the streets or join unsupervised gatherings up to late at night increases their exposure to danger and the potential for delinquent behavior.
Effective parenting requires a balance of trust and vigilance. This means setting clear boundaries for curfew compliance, fostering open communication about expectations, and understanding the social circles their children engage with. The ICPO has made it clear: juvenile delinquency, while being a law enforcement matter, is also a community challenge that begins at home. Parents must take the lead by modeling discipline and accountability, reminding their children of the consequences of breaking rules and laws.
Barangay officials and law enforcers can only do so much to patrol public spaces and enforce ordinances. True prevention starts within families. By actively supervising their children, engaging in their lives, and creating meaningful alternatives to idle time, parents can significantly reduce the risks of their children falling into harmful behaviors.
The holiday season should be an opportunity to strengthen family ties, not to expose the vulnerabilities of our youth. Recent cases of violence among minors in Iloilo City are a wake-up call for the entire community. Parenting is not a passive role; it is an active, ongoing responsibility that becomes even more crucial during the holidays.
As we enjoy the festive lights, the joyful carols, and the warmth of family gatherings, let us not forget our duty to guide and protect our children. A safer holiday season begins with responsible parenting, ensuring that the next generation grows up with the values of discipline, respect, and community spirit that Iloilo holds dear.
