The forgotten gratitude

BY KLAUS DÖRING

RAKESH Jain, founder at NEET Navigator l MBBS Lighthouse, commented the following: “Human civilization evolved as a result of inter-dependencies. The external world was full of hostilities thus humans huddled together as family and tribe to develop relationships for better safety and survival. Science and technology changed the attitude towards inter-dependencies and hostilities. As more knowledge became available to the masses, people’s attitude became more independent. Fear of the unknown was gone and barriers to knowledge were eliminated by technology such as the Internet.

“Somebody comes to my place and drinks a lot. I just keep on roaring and flowing and remain happy during my whole life, because I can give and give and share…even without gratitude!” (Historical fountains in Regensburg/Bavaria/South Germany)

“Being in the making means being thankful forever!” What a meaningful quotation in German poet’s Goethe’s drama “Faustus” from 1831 – but how very far away from today’s reality.

When did you, my dear reader, say THANK YOU recently” I don’t mean it as in a disgracing phrase, no, but such as an honest attitude, to which we are all susceptible.

A few days ago somebody told me that we all should be very thankful to all leaders in society, clergy and politics – for their mistakes and mismanagement including arrogance and incompetence. Strong tobacco – but true!

“The Pharisee stood apart by himself and prayed: … God, I thank you that I am not like that (corrupt?) tax collector over there!” (Luke 18, 11). “What’s more transient than gratitude?” asked the German poet Friedrich Schiller (1759-1805) in his drama “Don Carlos”.

Gratitude or thankfulness in our daily surroundings: many times it’s just forgotten because we treat sacrifices, services and even the smallest relief without saying it as only natural and take it as a matter of course.

Many of our leaders on earth forgot that they only got their position because of our trust and voting. Thankfulness? For goodness sake, just let’s be patient and wait for it. I even couldn’t care less if the grumpy taxi driver isn’t able to say a simple “thanks” after I paid my fare including a small tip.

Benjamino Gigli (1890 – 1957), a member of a church choir, who studied singing/chanting in Rome and who performed on most all known stages and in concert halls in Italy and later in North America and the whole world and became a legitimated successor of the great Italian tenor Enrico Caruso expressed this:

“After 41 years, when I said goodbye to my stage performances, I found this: Me, the son of a poor Italian shoemaker, could enjoy all sweet fruits of success and popularity. Kings and presidents became my friends. Millions of people gave me their appreciation and applause. But, I know very well that everything is a gift of God: MY VOICE. I have never forgotten to thank Him for this. Having a claim on something, jealousy and envy are a real siblings trio, which plans to settle down in the place of the forgotten gratitude to say THANK YOU. Only those who know how to thank are able to praise the Lord.

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