BY KLAUS DÖRING
GOOD old days – commonly stylized as “good ol’ days” – is a cliché in popular culture used to reference a time considered by the speaker to be better than the current era. It is a form of nostalgia that can reflect homesickness or yearning for long-gone moments.
Is it correct to say “good old days”? If you talk about the good old days, you mean a time in the past when you believed life was better: I wish my grandma would stop going on about the good old days.
Why does it feel like everything was better in the past?
We have a tendency to rehearse and dwell on the good things that happened, we retell them a lot more often, and so we reinforce the good memories. Moreover, we tend to remember the great songs or cars or football players from the ‘old days’ and forget all the bad ones.”
When people refer to the good old days, they are referring to a time in the past when they think that life was better than it is now. He remembers the good old days when you could leave your door open at night.
Rosy retrospection refers to our tendency to recall the past more fondly than the present, all else being equal. It is a cognitive bias that runs parallel with the concept of nostalgia, though the latter does not always directly imply a biased recollection.
Human nature makes us remember more of our youth, it was delicious and it lasted a long time. So that’s my explanation of why people think the past was better….and also why the older we get the faster time moves for us.
I grew up old school in a time with no technology, or very little that is. I thought life was perfect when I grew up.
Our social network was our neighborhood friends and our school. We weren’t so narcissistic that we posted everything we think and do on the internet. No Internet yet.
And we played Sports rather than video games. That to me is the most important thing. Things were simpler then, yes. But in a way better.
But I’m not foolish enough to think that technology hasn’t given us a plethora of opportunities and things that we didn’t have before. I’m always amazed that I can ask my smartphone anything in the recorded history of mankind, and get an answer! So cool. Science and medical advancements through technology Astound us. So in this aspect technology has been a tremendous influence. But unfortunately the internet has morphed into a social media platform more than an educational platform.
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